By tehconi | March 8, 2014
Use naysayers as an inverse indicator.
Are there are people in your life who want for you things which you don’t want. Are they are adamant to make you fit into their cozy box of conventions. Do they support you only if you behave, act and live in a way which fits into their agenda. Do they tear you down when you go beyond the perimeter of their world.
I used to spend days and weeks getting upset and bashing myself over such people. I don’t do that anymore. I don’t want to waste a second more of my life on that.
Focusing on them is a waste of time and distracts you from what really needs to get done to live a better life.